November 16, 2015

Letter To My Younger Self 11/16

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In an effort to actually write the post I said I would, I looked for different and interesting types of blog posts. I really like this one. Maybe, the advice I would have given a younger Caraway, will be seen and noticed by other authors who are starting out. So, I hope you enjoy the letter I wrote.


Dear Caraway,

The biggest thing I need to tell you is believe in yourself. Your brain knows what it wants to say, listen to everything. And know that yoCarawayCarter_HIWTHIu story may come out all convoluted and wont make anyone happy. It’s called a shitty first draft for a reason. Do not judge yourself based on that first draft.

Believe that when someone tells you that you are a good writer, you are a good writer. No one is going to encourage you to be a writer if they think you write poorly. They might say, oooh you should take classes and cultivate that. But you, Caraway, are a natural storyteller.

When you get married, oh yes… you are going to get married one day, listen to your husbear. I know, it’s a cute moniker. He calls you his husboy… anyway. When he tells you he doesn’t want to hear your story till your third draft. Listen to him, because it’s going to be hard. But, this way he wont Anders & Ujaruk Covertry to fix everything and you wont get mad that he’s trying to fix everything.

Stop buying books every time you start a new project, you know how to write, just look at paragraph number one, and possibly number wo.

Things will devastate you in this lifetime, but you have to get back on the horse and finish what you started. Learn to sign your name, you’ll hate the r’
s, but people will like the name and you’ll be happy.

Just keep writing, don’t be afraid, be happy and bring your “A” game. Save your money for GRL and California Dreamin’. Be positive and have fun with life. You will be a published author one day. You’ll have many friends who will love and support you. Many varied friends.

The First TimeBe compassionate towards your husbear, he’s a great guy. You got really lucky there. Be understanding to those around you. When you can, be supportive of new and old authors alike.

Do not get angry with yourself if you don’t complete a project right away, or you don’t write every blog post how others do it. Do not change your writing to fit someone else’s mold. Write like you. People will like it.

Try to always put together a story bible, you never know when something will need a sequel, or people will want to know the outcome of a relationship or how they got together.

Remember that nanowrimo does not always have to be about vampires and church porn. It can, but if you are trying to write that great love story, it doesn’t have to end that way.

dare to liveDon’t go to GoodReads unless you are already depressed, the reviews are not the real feelings. Even your favorite authors get one star reviews.

Believe in doing greater and more exciting things. You can do this!

But, always remember.

You are Caraway Carter, you will be a published author, and you will be asked for autographs. (R’s will be the bane of your existence.)

Just be happy!


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